Post by arry on Nov 6, 2008 10:04:47 GMT 1
Im feckin exhausted from err...debating at my mates last night...........would like to hear some views here.
Not sure it should even be spoken of on here but i have faith in the LW forum.
In advance,if anyone has personal experience of this and it touches a raw nerve,im truly sorry,i ll begin....
My daughter of seven fukin teen and a half has a bun in the oven and i am to be a grandude at the ripe old age of 41!The name of the band is to change from motorheadache to motorscooter....
the subject was raised on the issue of abortion of which i can see both sides but if there is a fence to sit on i would say i am leaning towards the "pro life"side.......
we tusseled for seemed like ages and in the end i gave him a hug,called him a stubborn twat,agreed to disagree and left.
To make my argument i said,"what if your a woman who is violently raped?" "terminate,he said unhesitantly,"but its not the childs fault i argued and you cant play god,he argued that you wouldnt want reminding constantly of the event by looking at the kid,valid point?
Id like to think my attitude is pretty much positive in any given situation(although being violently raped must be a really horrific event),however,i think the child could help you heal rather than double blow of rape n termination.
As ive said,i am on the fence with this and believe there is definite shades of grey on the subject but my mate sees it as plain black n white which i find hard to swallow.
Sorry to bring misery onto an essentially fun forum but the dudes got me agitated so..........
man walks into bar and buys an apple then........................
Not sure it should even be spoken of on here but i have faith in the LW forum.
In advance,if anyone has personal experience of this and it touches a raw nerve,im truly sorry,i ll begin....
My daughter of seven fukin teen and a half has a bun in the oven and i am to be a grandude at the ripe old age of 41!The name of the band is to change from motorheadache to motorscooter....
the subject was raised on the issue of abortion of which i can see both sides but if there is a fence to sit on i would say i am leaning towards the "pro life"side.......
we tusseled for seemed like ages and in the end i gave him a hug,called him a stubborn twat,agreed to disagree and left.
To make my argument i said,"what if your a woman who is violently raped?" "terminate,he said unhesitantly,"but its not the childs fault i argued and you cant play god,he argued that you wouldnt want reminding constantly of the event by looking at the kid,valid point?
Id like to think my attitude is pretty much positive in any given situation(although being violently raped must be a really horrific event),however,i think the child could help you heal rather than double blow of rape n termination.
As ive said,i am on the fence with this and believe there is definite shades of grey on the subject but my mate sees it as plain black n white which i find hard to swallow.
Sorry to bring misery onto an essentially fun forum but the dudes got me agitated so..........
man walks into bar and buys an apple then........................